Saturday, January 20, 2007

And Finally..

Ther r many instances in life..wen u keep waitin for something to happen.. u want it to happen sooo badly dat u almost harrass da ppl who cud make it happen.. but then..wen it finally does..u dont want it anymore..
*Gulpin*
Er.. this is WAT is happenin to me..
Sinc v hav a very old family tradition.. Girls in da family do not get their ears pierced wen they r young..there has to b a proper ceremony..in wich da parents take some 'Pheras' (yes..in our marriages..v dont take da 7 pheras at once..some r left for this occasion.. *disgust* ) ..n this happens wen their SON is in his EVEN years.. lik 2/4/6.. wateva..
So..i havent got ne piercin done.. yet.. but its goin to happen..this wednesday.. eekk...um sooooo nervous..
All my life i hav been criticisin this particular tradition.. lik -y dint get all my piercin done in my chilhood.. um da odd one out..blah blah..
y da half pheras? this is lik a mini-marriage in itself?
y does da SON has to get involved? i mean..he doesnt play ne part... everythin is bout da parents n their darling daughter..wher does this third angle fit into?
All this..um sorrry..i still dont understand da logic behind it ... n um sure i never will.. (wit due respect to all da gods n goddesses in heaven..if any one has a problem up ther.. contact me..or rather.. DO NOT contact me..)
Y? Y? Y? mom..y dint u get all this done wen i was a squeaky stupid 5-yr-old.. now.. its sooo scray mannnnn... some idiot tryin to push a whole pin inside my skin... AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
as u can see.. um terrorised... i mite b actin lik an idiot.. ppl wil say -Everybody gets this done..wats da big deal blah blah.. some even get 3-4 pierces n all.. ok guys.. dats jus fine.. they hav da guts .. they can ok.. let them do it..
um jus tooooo childish?? yea.. i am.... So?
P.S- sorry for wastin ur tym n mine on such a stupid post but i reallly am gettin very jittery!!

UPDATE- Well well well...wednesde has come n gone n no sign of any horrible piercings yet..hheheh.. well all da puja n all is done.. so now i hav da licence to pierce anytym i want..hehhe... da later da better ;)
Btw..da mini wedding was great n had lotsa fun at da party :D
Life is sooo much fun.. hehhe.. (atleast as of now!)

8 comments:

AnKiT RuiA said...

well hny, traditions are the way they are... idiotic, illogical... temme one religious tradition which has a well-deserved logic behind it... bt thts the way it is... they ll hve to followed... now its nt mom's fault after all, she has to follow wat she is supposed to... chalo dnt think mch n get urself a set of beautiful earrings... n send me the pics ya ;)

Sneha said...

// some idiot tryin to push a whole pin inside my skin

ICK!! hahahahhhha

gotcha!

don't worry babes, it won't be THAT bad (or good?!)(heheheh)

even i don't get the SON part. this is all a part of discrimination i say! WHY does the son have to be considered??? sheeesh. anyway, good luck! and enjoy!

KAMONASISH AAYUSH MAZUMDAR said...
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KAMONASISH AAYUSH MAZUMDAR said...

NO ITS A GRAND TRADITION...n WHILE U R AT IT U SHUD GET UR NOSE PEARCED TOO....wen i went to RAJASTHAN a lil gurl came running upto me n GAV ME THIS HUGE NOSE RING n whispered giv it to sum1 worthy!I always wondered y she choose me..NOW I KNW !!!lolZzzz[;P]
n y stop thr i knw a lot more places whr u can pierce urself!mayb u can talk to ur mom abt tht too...(hmm on 2nd thot mayb not)

n abt the half marriage thing its a brilliant concept! ok...n PAIN n PLEASURE r two sides of the same coin...no PAIN no GAIN ok !!! the piercing part is the PAINFUL part BUT THE GAIN IS (m workin on this one..plz contact later :D) do u evn knw y its done ??? (coz if u do u wud probably b the first one;))

hey sheryl cheer up k ? luk at the brighter side.......uhh......umm.......hmmm......or mayb not [:P]....n abt the SON part it hpns in tht way coz of THE REASON ok !!! n speaking abt discrimination hey evn the TRIBES IN AFRICA wen they turn 18 hav to get bitten by loads of fire ants to prove thier worth so y not THE EDUCATED CULTURED COSMOPOLITAN PPL OF INDIA ? haan y not ?

wid an honest hope tht none of ur parents or family members read my scrap adios amigos.....happy piercing (WUD HAV LIKD MORE IF U GOT A TATTOO mayb!!) piercings cute too....vl judge wen i c u...until then hugs n smiles....

Abhu said...

oye chill yaar!!!!! i know u must be feeling scared. but trust me. its not DAT painfull. and u think of all da gud gud stuff u'll be able to wear afr dat:P and if this gives u any consolation, i had to get my ears pierced twice. da second tym was wen i was sm 9-10 yrs old. so i was not all dat young. and anywayz...dey will be piercing ur cartilage so it wont pain much as it dsnt have many bllod vessels. jst sm plasma and stuff:P so babes...chillax and njoy being a mini bride;)

p.s. hope this comment was long enof!!!!!!

Tejal said...

helo fols..jus wanted to say.. as da days r passin..my nervousness i also takin its toll..

@ankit- well all traditions arent lik dat..jus some of them r! i loveeeeeee our marriage..all da ceremonies, everythin.. its jus lik a dream..soo beautiful..
pics? yea ok.. if they'll b lookable..lol..(is dat a word?)
n u k no wat? mom is sooooo happy...luks lik she's bein treated lik a new bride..lol...

@sneha- wud do ya mean it wont b ne gud either? u tryin to scare me even more?? *stares*
thanks for da wishes though :)
ha! my description sounds a lil exagerrated does it? lol..

@comment deleted- :P
dont try this again ok?

@aayush- well,yes, it is a GRAND tradition..lol..ask my mom :P
n shutup bout dat nose thing...STOPPP.. cant u see um already freaked out bout one piercin dat ur suggestin soo manyy other?? *shudders*
but u giv me dat nose-ring neway :P
n wat reason r u talkin bout regardin da son..i dunno ne n um sure ther isnt..its jus ancient weird superstition..
Bout my family..my mom reads it sumtymes..but i'll b careful this tym NOT to show her da comments..hehhe
well two of my bros read this blog (i hope they kick u for this! ha!) dont evn suggest tattoos..i mite start shriekin here..hehehe..
thanks for da wishes..yea u can judge urself..awrite?..lol..

@abhu- hehhe..yes its long enof :P
n wil u stop all dat biology here..um gettin pukish here by ur description.. plasma??!!! yuckkkkkk!!i thot ur fav sub was chem not bio??? lol..
n did u really do it all over again? wen u wer 9-10? thank god..dats a relief!
n dumb girllll its my parents mini-wedding NOT mine!! idiot.. anyway,if it wer mine..who wud sit in da dulha's place? :P *rofl*
u suggestin sumthin?? *twinklin eyelashes*

raghu said...

hahah.. kal na.. mazze kar.. c dis opptunity's gonna come jus once..njoi it..:D

Abhu said...

u want me to suggest who shud sit next to u????*devilish grin*. u really want me to tell u bout it??here?? openly??? okay...


er...no...on seconds thots, i'll tell u bout it wen we meet. and btw...as um typing this thing out, u must be getting ur thing done. so best of luck babes!!!!!!!!